Love and Toleration

“妥协，
是一把天梯，
必须先愿意放下身段，
弯下腰，
才能够爬得上去，
一旦爬上妥协的天梯，
就会看见宽广的世界，
把芝麻小事都丢在脚下，
埋进土里，
当作幸福的肥料，
滋养两个人的成长。” ~吴若权

9/1的今天，突然领悟了。。。
相爱，
得学习不争气，不生气。
这境界很高，要道行高的人才作得到。
尤其在爱中不是事事完美，
总有闹脾气，争论你是我非的时候，
所以，要妥协。。。

但很多时候，
要我弯下腰，
放弃自己的坚持与执着，
简直比登天还难。

也许。。。
就因为如此，才无法好好的爱一个人，
自己的爱，仍有保留，
仍有让自己不必妥协的保留。

觉悟了。。。
放下自我，
是学习去爱的第一步。



Ps:This is my first chinese entry, haven't write something like this for ages,
sorry to those can't read in chinese, lost in translation cuz' my English is Ltd Bhd,
maybe someone can help me with this.....

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delete reply ahlok2003 wrote on Jan 9, '05 good try..love to see more manderin article like this.. but if the MV sing in chinese will be better feel.. becuase very wire when i read in mandarin then..english song is playing.. haha..is that so??

edit delete reply atlantisian wrote on Jan 10, '05 ahlok2003 said good try..love to see more manderin article like this.. but if the MV sing in chinese will be better feel.. becuase very wire when i read in mandarin then..english song is playing.. haha..is that so?? thanx... it took me a great effort to write this cuz' i can't recall the right chinese word, LOL.... i miss those dayz where i can write full page of poetic,sausy chinese blog in thunder speed. change the song to yanzi's one, hope you enjoy it. in the progress of writing the second one now...

delete reply pohmui wrote on Jan 10, '05 i love this song.. really i love the song.. :p

edit delete reply atlantisian wrote on Jan 22, '05 Tolerance vs. Love Apologist, author, and speaker Josh McDowell writes: Tolerance says, "You must approve of what I do." Love responds, "I must do something harder: I will love you, even when your behavior offends me." Tolerance says, "You must agree with me." Love responds, "I must do something harder: I will tell you the truth, because I am convinced 'the truth will set you free.'" Tolerance says, "You must allow me to have my way." Love responds, "I must do something harder: I will plead with you to follow the right way, because I believe you are worth the risk." Tolerance seeks to be inoffensive; love takes risks. Tolerance glorifies division; love seeks unity. Tolerance costs nothing; love costs everything.

delete reply ahlok2003 wrote on Jan 22, '05 love costs everything........makes the world

delete reply pohmui wrote on Jan 22, '05 love cost us everything our soul and our feeling. it makes the universe more than the world