Tuesday, May 18, 2010

The pig

Someone said really really rude words to me, and somehow the whole episode made me felt very sick, literally.

Am not a racist or a sexist person, however when it comes to combination of Bangladeshi and male chauvinist pig, you will be surprise how sexist and racist i can be. Anyway, the pig shouted many many F words which nearly blasted my phone to pieces. And because of his incapability, i have to talk to the head of security and head of organizer of the international conference in order to let him in to do his work, 5 mins before conference starts.

If you claim yourself as a CEO, please acts like one! I know am nothing but an insignificant product manager, but if this is my project, i would expect team members to respect the time lines which was agreed upon, and i dont give a heck if you are from another company, if my company is paying you RM150k to get the work done, you better respect me as the representative of your client company, regardless the fact that i am woman, who your culture labeled as second class people.

It still amazed me that in today's society of this age, there are still some people out there who really think that girls are innately inferior than the guys. They are putting the woman down with disrespectful and foul language, at their whims and fancies just to show that they are superior. I do understand that we are all product of the culture and religion of yesterday's. However, if education cannot teach a person about simple lesson of basic respect for each other, regardless of gender, then i have to say that knowledge is nothing but a waste for the person.

So Mr. pig, take this as a friendly advice, this is how a Malaysian woman think and work, if you are thinking of running a business long term in this country, you gotta start to learn to treat woman as a person, who is equally worthy as you are. So, think twice before the words of insults leave the filthy mouth of yours next time.

2 comments:

manglish said...

i am not sure, i think you dont have to be nice to him....just give it back to him and stand up for yourself, said it to him nicely that you will not tolerate this kind of behaviours at the end of the conference and walk away coolly, dont lose your composure....think you can do it? hahahaaha

Dorcas said...

Keep Calm, and Carry On! haha!
how's your kitchen reno going btw, and the wedding prep?